Timer set for five minutes. Ready. Set. GO.
I lost my crockpot.
Don’t ask me how.
If I could retrace my steps and figure out how I lost it, I’d be able to find it.
And I can’t.
It’s not like a chapstick or a pencil. You don’t have another one laying around in the bottom of a drawer someplace. It’s definitely not a huge deal, but when you’ve started using one, you find it is a nice option to have.
So when I took my son to his friend’s house, I told the funny story of not being able to find it. “Who loses a crockpot?!” I joked.
The mom said, “Do you want one of mine?”
Huh??
She told me she had an extra one she never uses, an inexpensive one she picked up somewhere along the way, one she didn’t need.
My pride department wanted to keep me from taking it. But my time management department told me I could really use it. And she was being generous, offering me a gift. She wouldn’t offer if she didn’t want to.
So I took the crockpot, almost accidentally broke it on the way out the door. and now my family can have shredded pork tacos again. But the takeaway is that I almost missed out on the chance to be part of this new friend’s story of generosity. My pride almost kept me from allowing her to help me. And how often, especially as moms, do we choose to tough it out because we don’t want to admit we need help?
STOP
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Like most Fridays, this post is part of a linkup with Lisa-jo Baker’s Five Minute Fridays. You write for five minutes flat, then linkup your post on her website: http://lisajobaker.com . Check it out for more details, but if you’re interested in finding other writers to connect with, Five Minute Fridays is a great way to do so.
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Elizabeth Hanna says
Awesome story…awesome lesson. Thanks for sharing. This was REALLY fun to read…and also profound! Made my day!
patticates247 says
Hi! I am a neighbor from Five Minute Friday. I too love my crockpot! It is so good for many yummy meals. And, thanks for the lesson that you explained. Some good things to keep in mind. Patti
Emily says
Simply wonderful. Love the pride and time management departments. Love that they each weighed in.
I love that the crock pot was red and you didn’t tell us until the end. I thought you might have forgotten the prompt on accident!
You’re hilarious and I think we would be friends in real life.
The Inkubator says
You are too kind! Glad you enjoyed the post. A few days ago I saw a mug on Pinterest and thought of you – it said “World’s Okayest Mom” and I thought it was so funny. I agree that we’d be friends in real life too, and I’m happy that we’re online friends already. 🙂 Blessings!
Osheta Moore says
I. Loved. This. Post. I broke my favorite red crockpot, so I have a new one. Not red, but loved as dearly. I too struggle with the pride thing, especially with new friends. Thank you for sharing your story. You are such a finny writer. Stopping by from FMF.
afourytale says
I would lose my crock pot for sure! I love this post and am a new follower. 🙂 Happy Friday.
The Inkubator says
Happy to hear I’m not the only one! Thanks for your comment and for the follow. Here’s to many shared antics to come!
Brie E says
I liked this! You have a such a refreshing voice. 🙂